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Peace

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Peace

“Go into the wild to find peace”

Where do you find your peace?

Go ahead….tell me…..I’m listening…….

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The Road Upward

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The Road UpwardWhich way are you going?

We are all moving either upward or downward.

“The road upward can be steep and gloomy, but the views are spectacular”

 

  • Going down is giving up on what you wanted to accomplish.
  • Going up is moving towards your goal.

Keep moving up because the top is a mark of an accomplishment…and then, building on this accomplishment, you will have another goal creating a movement up.  Develop your character, your goals, your ideals and your views.  Keep moving up.

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Opportunity Awaits

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Secret Door

Whats behind closed doors?

Every door we open, every step we take, every decision we make is a risk we take.

Although the door in this picture looks gloomy and unsure, there’s the ray of sunlight that brings a ray of hope with it.

“Every door brings a new opportunity”

Even when entering your home, office, friends home, etc…. you have a choice of how you enter it, how you relate to those behind the door that may great you.

  • Chose to be happy = you feel awesome thus spreading your attitude to all others in the room
  • Chose to be accepting of others = brings joy to you and all others
  • Chose to be successful = be proud
  • Chose to love = you will beam with joy encouraging others to love
  • Chose to be grumpy = be alone and isolated because you make it hard to be around you
  • Chose to fail = by not working towards success you are choosing to fail
  • Chose to hate = become miserable and alone

Take opening every door as a new opportunity to bring a smile, to be a better person, to love and accept the gifts the other side of the door offers.

 

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Go Around

I have been intrigued by photography for many years.

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“Go Around”

Not until a few years back, when I realized that my artistic creativity goes beyond music, that’s when I realized that I can also incorporate my creativity into photography.

Taking photos of people, getting them to enjoy being photographed is a challenge that I enjoy taking….always with great success.

Soon, I started seeing things through my eye as if it was a camera lens.  Ideas started popping up and natural photography took a new path. I started seeing life lessons in the way nature moved, developed, grew and blossomed.

The other day I took a trip to a Japanese garden and started shooting.  I came upon this path way and as I looked through to the end of the path, I spotted a tree and a large rock. The first thing that I though of was a lesson I want to share with you.

When you are traveling through life and there is something or someone in your way of completing your task or getting to your goal, just go around the obstacle, you are not a tree, YOU CAN MOVE. 

English as a Second Language part #1

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I started learning English (well, sort of but not really) when I was in 7th grade.

I was living in what was then Yugoslavia and now it’s part of Serbia.  I lived in Beograd and only spoke Serbian and a very little Russian.  You see, in this country students start learning a foreign language in 5th grade.  I wanted to sign up for English, but by the time I got to the school, those classes were full and the only other option was Russian. So I had to take Russian.

How did I start learning English 2 yrs later?

Thanks to the Beatles and the Rolling Stones.  I learned “I wanna hold your hand” and “Satisfaction” and “Eroplane” (yes, that’s how I heard it and that’s how I pronounced it) Those words were the extent of my knowledge of the English Language.  Oh, did I mention that I didn’t know what any of those words meant? At that time, there was no google translate to help me out, so I just knew some words from a song and had no idea what they meant.  My family didn’t listen to that kind of music and my friends didn’t know either.

After my 8th grade, my family and I moved to America and with my knowledge of English, I started high school within 2 months of arrival.

Talk about immersion into this part of my life….this was a gigantic step for a 15 yr old.

Immersion into:

  • a new culture
  • learning a new language
  • making new friends
  • being the translator for my non-english speaking parents
  • learning my new surroundings
  • being the oldest freshman in high school

That first year (or rather 1/2 year, I started in January) was very difficult.  Needless to say, I didn’t know anyone and couldn’t speak the language, so could not communicate with anyone.  Not too long after I started, most likely about 2-3 weeks, I met a couple of girls who spoke my language and things started to get better.

Learning a new language can be fun and exciting, but when you are thrown into it, it can be rather frightening and demoralizing.

Since then, I have grown in to a wonderful woman with a slight accent.

More of my story in Part #2.

Nada

Be Good to Yourself

 

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Frame of Reference

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On my walk today I listened to the Invisibilia Podcast.  The topic was about each of us having a family with different frame of references. How those references affect our adult lives.

When my kids would complain about having to walk to school while living in a tropical climate, I remind them that…

“I had to walk to school in snow, uphill both ways, with very thin boots, was not allowed to wear pants, but had to wear a dress.  Even though I had a coat and some thin gloves, the cold air would ride up my dress and I’d get to school with frozen thighs”

My mom who was a teen during WWII would complain to me that her granddaughter has more than one coat for winter.

“Why does she need more than one coat?  You can’t wear two or three at a time, there’s no need to have more than ONE”

It’s a perception that we carry through out our lives.  Things could be worse, and they were for some of us, and they actually are for some others.  Sometimes, we can’t see it because we had it worse and this “little” struggle that the next person is going through.

The thing is, what appears to us as this “little” struggle, is a huge hurdle for another person that has not had the same reference point as you or I have.

I grew up in a small room with only 3 usable walls and ONE window.  Yes, EVERYTHING was in ONE room.  So when my mom wonders why we need to have 3 or 4 bedroom house when a couple would do, I get the reference point.

Nada

Be Good to Yourself

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Motivation

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Do you sometimes have a hard time getting motivated to do “stuff”?

How do you get motivated?  Do you motivate yourself or depend on others/thinks?

What is your process of getting yourself off of your behind and start doing “stuff”?

For me it’s just starting the act of doing and then I am off to a great start.

……well, this does not always work, but most of the time it does….so I keep getting off my behind and moving forward, always hoping for the best.

What is your secret to getting motivated?

Nada

Be Good to Yourself

Before I Die….

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…..I want to write a children’s book

….I want to write a novel based on my life

….I want to bake cookies with my GBG

When I walk for exercise I listen to a podcast.  I have a number of podcasts downloaded on my iPhone, because I also listen to blogs while I do my paper flower artwork.

As I was walking Pua this morning I was listening to NPR the TED Radio Hour podcast.  The topic  for this podcast was “Rethinking Death” featuring Candy Chang the artist.  She is a large-scale participatory mural artist, known for, among other projects, Before I Die…. board.

This got me thinking about what I would like to do before I die.  At first I couldn’t think of anything…..

  • my life must be complete then
  • what more do I want to do
  • is there nothing left for me to do
  • am I done???

As I continued listening to this inspiring podcast, many thoughts started to swirl through my mind.  All the swirling going on started me thinking about what all I have already done. Just because I’m no longer working for the big corporation or teaching music, does not mean I have to stop living.

My mind started to go places and the swirling thinking became more tame and clear.  From thinking of so many things I wanted to do that I would need to live a couple of more lives to get it all done….to I needed to focus on one thing for now.

If you chose just one thing that you want to do before you die, does that mean once you get that one thing done you can then die?  Or does that mean, you set another goal for yourself?

I would like to think that I set one goal at a time and see how many life achieving goals I can complete before I am done here.

Life is not about death….

Life is about living…..set your sights on LIFE!

What do you want to do before you die?

Nada

“Be Good To Yourself”